Right now- my view of his job.*Profanity*

Adapted from the Fort Minor song, "Where'd You Go?"

I said "Some days I feel like shit.
Some days I wanna quit and just be normal for a bit,
I don't understand why you have to always be gone,
I get along but the trips always feel so long,
And I find myself trying to stay by the phone,
'Cause your voice always helps me to not feel so alone,
I feel like an idiot, workin' my day around the call
That when I pick up I don't have much to say
I want you to know it's a little fucked up,
That I'm stuck here waitin', at times debatin',
Tellin' you that I've had it with you and your career,
Listening to your family here saying "Where'd you go?"

Where'd you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever
That you've been gone.
Where'd you go?
We miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever
That you've been gone.
please come back home.

I know this is really whiny and I feel like I've kind of lowered my standards by including the profanity, but every time this song randomly comes on during deployments I feel as though it's on for me. Almost like there's some force of the universe that says "It's okay. Be angry. You'll feel better if you let it out and can let some of it go."

The part that always gets me are the lines about staying by the phone and the sense of resentment when you've dropped all your plans so you can talk and when you pick up there's nothing to talk about, and you feel so disappointed in yourself when you think, "What if this is the last time I talk to him? What about all the things I meant to say?"

So on the next phone call you're blathering like a fool, maybe arguing because you needed to clear the air about something, and you wonder, what's the point in this? He's a few thousand miles away! Maybe there's not a point here, not in any of this.

Maybe there's not.

The next time the phone rings, you think about it before you answer, and when it's him, you find that once again you have nothing to say.

I guess we all have days that we feel powerful and days that we are helpless; moments of capablility and failure. At the moment the days of power are so tenuous for me that I feel as though I am simply marking time without a goal, merely a denotation of how long we've been here.

Seems like forever that you've been gone.

College was worth it for this one moment.

I was not always the technical-degree EMT yall know and love. I once went to a real college with brick buildings and ivy and everything. I went to Hollins University in Roanoke, VA for a year and a half. To say that I did badly would be a kindness, and I dropped out.

Anyway, one of the classes I actually enjoyed/passed was German.

And today, almost five grand left in student loans became TOTALLY worth it.

I was at the commissary and saw three German soldiers hogging the 'taters section. I needed some 'taters and wished they'd move. I gathered from their (Bavarian-dialect) converstaion that they didn't know what kind of kartoffel to get. Auf deutsch, I enlightened them and educated them on the uses of Russet v. Idaho. They were very pleasant and didn't say anything about me being a crazy tater eating eavesdropper or anything. They actually thought it was great to meet an American who was interested in their language! One said it helped him feel less homesick. How sweet!

So yeah, college was worth it because now I can tell German soldiers about potatoes.

Maybe I should write a book. Potatoes and the German Soldiers, anyone?

A Gem From My Father

Dad: "Sophie, why did the woman at Lowes card me when I bought a can of compressed air?"

(Please bear in mind that he is SIXTEEN HUNDRED MILES AWAY)

Me:"I have no earthly idea, Dad. Maybe she thought you were cute."

Dad: "I'm sixty-two. I'm no longer cute."

Me: "Maybe she has a quota to meet. Maybe every can of compressed air sold must have proof of patron's carding. Like the till adding up at the end of the day."

Dad: "Well, what makes it okay for eighteen-year-olds to buy compressed air?"

Me: "Because the store can no longer be held liable for their actions after purchase."

Dad: "Sophie. It's not elephants all the way down." (Side note- WTF? I thought we were talking about compressed air?) "I can reason it just as well as you can. I just want to know why."

Me: "Well all I know is this is why nobody asked you when they were discussing this, or ten-year-olds would still be trying to huff compressed air."

Dad: "Do you think they leave the little needle on it when they huff it?"

Me: "No, because it would freeze your elephants off."

**CLICK**

Just a quick note.

You KNOW you are overly emotional with a dash of pregnancy hormones when songs from Toy Story make you sob.

All Toy Story movies are on a day-long ban in this house.

Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs is the film du jour (HAHA I MADE A PUN).

Also just wanted to say thank you to my three dearest Hell Paso friends for getting me through the past few days. I'm glad I have yall.

Movin' on.

Picked up the moving boxes today. Thinking about picking up some window paint for the van and doing up cutesy things like "Eastward Bound" and "Virginia or Bust" but I'm not sure I care that much. I've been doing that a lot lately- the not caring thing, that is.

Do you ever get to a point where you just don't have enough energy to care about stuff? I don't think I'm depressed, per say, just tired. What do you do when you feel that way? Can you "make" yourself care?

Well, chew on that, dear readers, whilst I pack.